Showing posts with label passion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label passion. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 08, 2016

Getting my mojo back

Often you can tell what someone’s passion is because their face just lights up, there is a brightness around their eyes as they talk about it.

I was reminded of that when I saw a photo of myself that was taken at the environmental photo shoot I wrote about a few weeks ago.  The photo is amazing. The photographer captured me in action, talking to a few young women… about life, work, and everything in between.

What struck me is that I don’t always look that vibrant.  Often these days I have a harried look as I try to fit more into my day, likely more than is humanly possible.  I often feel like the weight of the world is on my shoulders as I try to keep everyone happy – members, chapter leaders and yes, my family.  I am forgetting my own advice and taking life far too seriously.

When I came back from that photo shoot I remember being on a real high.  I’d not only enjoyed the experience, but as I wrote, I could see the merit in creating that personal experience for customers.

As we plan for the fall, I want to pay attention to these insights.  I have already realized that I need to delegate the paper work as I am getting bogged down in the detail and at risk of drowning in a sea of paper.  So before I go glug and under, it’s time to find someone who actually loves this type of work, because it ain’t me.

Like Phoenix rising, I am confident that if I get back to what I am good at and can spend more one-on-one time with people and small groups,  I will be a much happier camper and I will get back to being the gal in the photo.

Check out some photos of yourself.  How do you look?  Do you look happy with your lot in life, or are you, like me coasting, not doing what you are meant to be doing? 

They say a picture is worth a thousand words, and from my perspective this one picture showed me what I needed to do, more than any conversation could.


Watch for the new Anne Day coming to a community near you.

Saturday, November 16, 2013

Are you passionate about your business?



Does your face light up when you talk about your business? 

Having a passion for what you are doing makes such a difference, especially given the number of hours you have to dedicate to your business for it to be successful.

Recently a young friend was telling me about her business plans, and ever -ready to offer assistance and foster entrepreneurship in young people, I was in there like a ‘dirty shirt’ making suggestions and offering support to help her make this happen.

So I arranged for her to meet a friend, a business expert and coach, thinking this would help her crystalize her ideas.  She arrived ready to talk about her business plans, and left with a totally different perspective, and lots to think about and consider.

Why?  Because unlike me who took her concept at face value, my friend challenged her on why she wanted to do this and asked probing questions about her life, her relationships and her passions.  

It quickly became clear that her business idea, was just that - an idea – one of many, and not really her true passion.  It was when her face lit up that we identified that this passion and a new relationship, was what she needed to pursue.

Because as we all know, ithout the passion and right people behind you, it is harder to make it work.

It was an interesting afternoon for all of us.  While my friend left with her head likely spinning with the options available to her; I realized that I need to learn to ask more questions and not just assume that the person knows what is best for her,  because perhaps she doesn’t.