“A person who feels
appreciated will always do more than expected.”
But we seem to have
forgotten that. Is it just me, or have
we become a grumpier, more demanding society?
I ask because lately I’ve noticed how quickly people are to
criticize, to point out faults and what’s not working, instead of appreciating
or showing gratitude for what is.
Part of the problem lies in our use or abuse of email as a
way of communicating our disgruntlement.
Perhaps the writer doesn’t realize just how her message sounds and
perhaps too, we can read too much into the words chosen.
That said, I do find that people are often too preoccupied
in what they want, and when they don’t get what they want, like the spoilt
toddler, they have a tantrum thinking perhaps that will sway the decision and
change the outcome. Eh. No.
It’s too bad really because it is such a waste of energy,
negative energy at that and I don’t find myself drawn or wanting to be around
folks that give out such troubling vibes.
My advice? Take a
chill pill.
Look at the big picture and perhaps reflect on the other
person’s perspective. If something is
wrong, I’ve always found that being pleasant and polite gets you a lot
further. When we treat people with
respect and value their time and expertise, they are more likely to work harder
to fix the problem.
Gratitude and giving back is our theme for our upcoming conference on May 17. I'm hoping people will listen and take notes.
As Andy Wooten suggests – “It doesn’t cost anything to tell
someone thank you.” Try to say thanks to everyone that you can today.”
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