Showing posts with label questions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label questions. Show all posts

Saturday, November 02, 2013

Trust is a value to be treasured



With the headlines and recent proceedings in government, it is hard to ignore this climate of mistrust that is surfacing as a result.

While I usually try to avoid getting into politics, there have been some valuable lessons to learn from watching Harper in action, in terms of how to avoid and evade difficult questions.   

It actually reminds me of the comments author Stephen Shapiro made recently in that, we often ask the wrong questions.  I certainly found that to be true when I had teenagersJ  

But back to the business lessons because when truth is stretched, trust is lost, and it is very hard to win it back.

I am sure many of us can think of times when people have let us down, led us down the garden path or just disappointed us with their lack of integrity. People do business with people they know and trust.   So if you misuse or abuse that trust, it is quite likely that the relationship will go sour and you will lose that order or contract. 

Also when trust is gone and someone does something questionable, it does lead you to ask what else is being hidden?  What else is the person not ‘fessing up to?  It is very hard to repair that damage, all of which speaks to being honest and upfront in all your dealings.

 Honest, ethical behaviour is important to me.  Break that trust, and sorry, you’re toast.


  

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

DIGGING DEEP

Recently I had the opportunity to participate in a media interview, and in preparation had to answer some really tough questions on topics we don’t think about on a daily basis.

It was an interesting process and I was surprised at how deep I had to dig to come up with honest answers. I had answered all the questions but struggled with some, waffling on what was the best and most accurate answer to give.

I mean… if you were asked what talent or skill you wanted to have … how quickly could you come up with an answer? I had narrowed it down to three choices – public speaking, painting or driving (I am a nervous driver). As I reflected on this, it struck me that no where had I ever really acknowledged that I wanted to learn to paint, and if I really wanted to pursue this, there was nothing stopping me from taking lessons. Hey – who knows I could be the next Emily Carr!

What did I pick? In the end I went with the driving, because my fears limit me and I need to overcome this one.

Yet other questions, were easy to answer, such as describing the perfect day. Straight away I saw myself with my girlfriends, chatting, laughing, supporting each other in the way that women do.

All in all a thought-provoking process, that caused me to think hard and to ask my friends and family how accurate and truthful I was being in describing myself.

I leave you with one of the questions – what five words best describe you?