I have always been a
groupie.
Like when we emigrated to
Canada and actively sought out other ex-Brits, because we shared a common
background, perspective and a dry sense of humour. I found there was comfort in sharing
observations of our new lives.
Or when I was a young
mother, home alone with my first baby.
I’d always dreamt of being the “good mother,” ever-patient and loving
every moment with my child. Well, maybe
not. But that was my expectation and it
wasn’t until I met up with some other young mothers, who fast became friends,
that I realized how unrealistic my vision was.
These women were brave enough to remove the mask and we were able to
share the good, the bad and the ugly with each other.
I was reminded of all this
at this week’s re-launch of the Durham chapter when Jenny McKee, my new chapter
leader, was quick to encourage the women to be real and not to put on phony
fronts that all is well, when it isn’t.
It is when we are authentic and honest, both with ourselves and others,
that we truly gain.
As I watched the women
connect and open up to one another, you could see the heads nodding. It is a relief to know that you are not the
only one to feel isolated and alone when you run your own business – heck,
that’s why I started Company of Women in the first place.
No matter what your
business is, I’ve found that the issues are the same – finding customers, cash
flow, keeping customers, cash flow, staying positive, and more - and when we can open up and share our
challenges, we can then draw on the wisdom of the women around us.
Years ago I worked on a
research project – Double Jeopardy – which was looking at how best to support
women who were super-stressed and turning to drugs and alcohol to cope. What
did we find out? The women said connecting
with others who had been in similar situations or were on the same path was
what they needed. It could be one-on-one
or in groups, but the key component was that the women shared similar
experiences.
As women we like to
belong, to be part of a community and at Company of Women I’d like to think
we’ve created a safe, non-judgmental environment where you can be Suzy,
entrepreneur or just Suzy, depending on the day.
Both are welcome. Let’s
face it, the different segments of our lives are so intertwined, and each
impacts the other. So no matter what,
just know that we support you and we’re here to help you succeed.
Remember,
there’s strength in numbers.
3 comments:
Well said Anne!
Awesome Article Anne! I love your concept of there is strength in numbers and I love supporting women who embrace that same philosophy!
Jenny McKee is fantastic and genuine. She is going to be an amazing leader for Company of Women.
Awesome Article Anne! I love your concept of there is strength in numbers and I love supporting women who embrace that same philosophy!
Jenny McKee is fantastic and genuine. She is going to be an amazing leader for Company of Women.
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