I recently had the honour of being a judge for a contest
that required women to share their stories.
I read their words and as always, was truly blown away at
the courage and persistence of women to stay true to themselves, even if
they’ve gotten drawn off track because of life situations.
But what struck me is that while storytelling has become
recognized as a valid business tool, often we fail to take it far enough. We don’t get to the point where we actually
help other people learn from our experiences. We just share our story and
assume that people will capture the kernels of knowledge through osmosis.
Now to find the lessons does take a certain level of
self-awareness and perhaps maturity to recognize that others could benefit from learning from our mistakes or more tactfully put, our detours en route to
greatness.
One story that I often share with new entrepreneurs is about
when I started a vegetable garden and how the results could be easily
correlated to what it is like when you start a business – in that you never
know what will grow easily, and in addition, you don’t plant something you don’t
like (to eat or do) such as radishes. That radishes story captured people’s
imagination and it’s almost become an inside joke. Every time someone in the group finds themselves off track and doing work they hate, the response usually refers to radishes.
So next time you write or share your story, think about how
someone else could benefit from hearing what you have to say. How can you weave in some insights that will
help others to grow and learn from your experience? Sometimes that means you have to join the
dots, so people get the picture. Because
then the challenges you have faced have meaning. Then you are truly helping
someone else grow and learn.
1 comment:
Wise words Anne. I totally agree that self-awareness is necessary - and paradoxically - the exercise of standing back from your story to ask "What could be meaningful to someone else?" can actually bring a different dimension of self-awareness. Thanks for your thoughtful article.
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