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I have had a fascinating week, interviewing women for the One Red Lipstick book.
One of the reasons we embarked on this project was that we knew instinctively that women who are successful by society’s standards, often have a story to tell.
As women entrepreneurs, we all know that it is never plain sailing, that often there are obstacles to be overcome, but we’re really good at putting on the mask (and the red lipstick) and acting as if nothing is wrong.
Sometimes success comes with a hefty price tag when we have been so embroiled and focused in our business that we neglect our health, take our relationships for granted and are so driven that really our life is out of kilter.
I remember years ago having a speaker who talked about just that. In actual fact she was there to talk on a different topic, but her recent realization and wake up call of how she was missing the boat was top of mind, and that is what she focused on in her presentation. I applaud her honesty and willingness to be vulnerable.
We take our health for granted. It is not until we have lost our ability to do something – as simple as just getting up without pain - that we realize how precious life and our health is. Success takes on a different interpretation, and maybe we need to revisit what success means to us.
Certainly in the summer the pace is slower. We take time to stop and think, but why can’t we do that twelve months of the year? I am challenging myself with the same question. When I come up with the answer, I’ll let you know.
One of the closing questions we ask the women is what advice they would give to someone starting out. I loved the reply from my last interviewee - “Join a gym and lift weights.” Her rationale? You need to be physically strong to stay the course.
Maybe that’s advice that would work for all of us as we weave our way through life. What do you think?